Yes, this is oversharing–but it happens all the time. No biggie–though some details I’d just as soon not know. That said…1) We don’t know our bodies as well as we should (and boy, does she know hers); 2) Social cues, sexual cues, are minefields. No wonder we get blown up so often walking through them. One thing we could do–stop pretending we know more than we do. Ignorance–and willful ignorance at that–is the cause for a lot of heartache.