Everyone wants to own the result, nobody wants to own the process.
Put another way…everyone wants to eat the cookies, but no one wants to do the baking.
As one of the commenters noted, change hurts. The process does not involve any magic wands or silver bullets, but deep, difficult work. Sexy, no. Worth it, yes. Own the process of becoming you, and that will help shape the world you want. Gandhi said it better, though.
Really, really loved this post.