We won’t define insanity here–you can go elsewhere on the web to find it. I’m looking at insanity in a different way. Instead the pop culture norm, what if it’s about our inability to say no? What if we repeat the same patterns because we’re scared of…being alone, being shunned, shame, embarrassment. What if we had the courage to say no? And, perhaps more importantly, explain why, with as much compassion as can be mustered. Then, maybe we can get away from repeating ourselves.