The real joy

“In detachment lies the wisdom of uncertainty…in the wisdom of uncertainty lies the freedom from our past, from the known, which is the prison of past conditioning. And in our willingness to step into the unknown, the field of possibilities we surrender ourselves to the creative mind that orchestrates the dance of the universe”.

This is from here, and my reading of this is the opposite from what we’ve seen and what we’ve been taught. When we have sex, we do it under the assumption that there has to be an outcome–somebody has to have an orgasm. There has to be a result, and in the chase for the result, dysfunction happens. One partner isn’t happy, the other fretting about that unhappiness, and drug companies willing to step into the breach with their own solution.

Why does there have to be a result, other than getting pregnant?Why can’t two people be with each other intimately and that’s it? No result, no tension. Just two people enjoying each other’s bodies and souls. No attachment of meaning or outcome.

Just being there.


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